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  1. I noticed a tweet last week that suggested that people don't buy training... they buy aspiration. Because I was delivering that day, I didn't get chance to investigate further. However, I understand that training may sometimes be a 'reluctant' purchase...like a maintenance contract on your PC: We want what it will do for us, not what it actually is. We train people so that bad things don't happen or to improve the current situation.

    In the same way, people don't like buying training materials (even when they are great value). Maybe they see it as a failure on their part. Maybe the feel they ought to be doing it themselves. Maybe the topic is genuinely very specific to them and off the shelf materials are just too generic. maybe they can't justify the expenditure. Maybe they are worried about losing control. I get it. I really do.

    However, designing great training (and associated detailed training materials) is time consuming. If you earn £30k per year, your salary alone is around £15 per hour (and then there are all the other benefits to consider), so a conservative estimate is £20 per hour. You spend 3 days (24 hours) designing a piece of training (which is again, conservative). The direct cost is £480. But what about indirect costs? What about all the other things that aren't getting done whilst you are engaged in design?

    Sometimes it makes more sense to buy in training materials and spend far fewer hours tailoring it to your organisation... especially when you can buy licence free editable materials from just £50. Doesn't it?

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  2. It's a tough one isn't it?

    Of course, there are certain aspects of everyones job where training IS (and should be) compulsory. Anything that covers working safely or is critical to core processes is quite rightly considered non negotiable.

    But what about other skills, like communication, managing people and personal effectiveness?

    Over the years, as a society, we've become more choice driven. Overall this is a great thing. We are all adults and most of us are capable of making good choices for ourselves. Sometimes we don't. Maybe this is because we don't like some of the options, we don't see the value or it's simply not a priority. How many times have we seen the senior manager opt of out performance management training because they 'know how to do it'? But they don't know how to do it well, and this has ramifications across the organisation.

    Maybe it's just because we are comfortable where we are. It's nice in our comfort zone isn't it?

    Over the school holidays my kids were more than happy to stay at home all day playing Minecraft, watching Horrible Histories and jumping on the trampoline. It was nice and comfortable for them. Familiar. It took no effort. When I suggested doing something different they were often reluctant (unless it was expensive and involved the chance of ice-cream of course!).

    Increasingly bored and frustrated, I took a more assertive approach. I took away their choice. "This afternoon we're going orienteering" I declared one day last week.

    "But WHY???"

    "It's boring"

    "I don't want to go orienteering"

    "Why can't we just stay here?"

    But go we did, and by the time we were hunting for our third marker, Minecraft, TV and boredom were forgotten. They were racing around, smiling and laughing, fighting over who got to read the map to find the next marker, and when we had finished they were surprised that it was over so quickly. They didn't want to go home, so we extended the visit to include half an hour on the playground (also deemed 'boring' eariler in the day).

    As with many things, it was the getting started that was hard. Once they HAD started, they created their own momentum.

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    Isn't that often the way with training too? People find any and every excuse not to go unless their job literally depends on it. But when they do (reluctantly) attend, the vast majority of people find it useful and enjoyable.

    So whilst the adult in me says that people should be free to choose whether to attend training and which training they want, another part of me knows that often people don't know what's good for them until they have the benefit of hindsight.

    So how do we get the balance right? Answers on a postcard (or orienteering post) please!

     

  3. I've just returned from a PGL holiday. For those unfamiliar with PGL the basic idea is that it's an outdoor activity camp for kids: Abseiling, Kayaking, Climbing etc. Most of their 'business' is school groups throughout term time, but in the summer they open the centres up to families...who get exactly the same programme delivered in exactly the same way!

    There were about 120 people in the 'families' group, and we were split into groups of 12. We were so lucky to have 6 adults and 6 kids in our group and we all got on (always a bonus!). We did all our activities together. As the week went on, our knowledge of each other, friendship and trust grew. We manhadled each other over obstacles, gave each other tips and advice, cheered when people succeeded, 'pushed' each other when we felt hesitant and commiserated when we failed. As a result, we got tiny people to the top of 'Jacobs Ladder', got people scared of heights abseiling, and even the more reticent actively involved in every activity in some way or another. That's what doing things together, with support, challenge, peer pressure and encouragement does for you. I would have happily passed up the opportunity to do the 'Trapese' if it had been offered as an individual activity. Another lady would not have abseiled if she hadn't learned to trust us, and feel happy that we wouldn't judge her if she changed her mind. Another only went on the 'giant swing' so she didn't let her daughter down.

    That's also why, in this wonderous technological age when so much learning can accessed anytime anywhere, I still believe in getting people together in a group for training. When we learn together we share ideas, we build friendships and support networks, we encourage each other, we feel the 'peer pressure' and so have a go at things that we might not if we were alone as we don't want to let the group down. We push ourselves and IF we fail, we are commiserated with, and when we succeed we celebrate success together. Of course, learning together is also more FUN and ultimately more memorable because we remember the 'non-learning' stuff too, and this creates more pathways in our brains to retain and retrieve what we HAVE we learned.

    Time and organisation is always a factor with group training, but you don't need to go on a 5-day residential. You don't even need a full day. Getting people together for a short 1-2 hour session that is interactive, challenging and practical will almost always leave more of an impression that 2 hours of solo learning. Also, people are far more likely to have 'had a go'. This means the learning is more likely to retained, and therefore more likely to be applied. Isn't that what training is all about?

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  4. Like many busy working parents I juggle things. A lot. Thankfully, I'm not a perfectionist or I think I'd be permanently stressed. Instead, I do 'enough' of the the things that matter to keep things working properly. For example:

    • I get my car serviced and periodically check that oil, water and typre pressures are OK... though I don't keep it partcularly clean or tend to minor scratches.
    • I take around 2.5 hours exercise a week, generally eat balanced meals and keep my weight in the healthy range...though I do eat too many crisps and cheese and am a bit wobbly in places.
    • I pull out the big weeds, chop the ivy down (often!) and make sure the lawn is mowed....though our borders are wonky, the paving stones dirty, and there are ALWAYS small weeds popping up.

     

    I do enough to keep things working as they should: My car, my body, my garden. They aren't perfect: I could hoover and polish my car from time to time; I could stop eating unhealthy snacks; I could weed more often; but I look after them enough. If I don't, I'm going to get problems.

    The same is true with teams. 

    Managers often feel under enourmous pressure to build and maintain a perfect team, and whilst this is a great aim, you don't need to be Mr Motivator or Miss Inspirational to build a GOOD team i.e. one that works. 

    Like my car and my body, it's about making the sure that the team has everything it needs to function well. Things such as:

    • Clarity of purpose
    • Good communication
    • Clear roles and expectations
    • Good working relationships
    • A common way of working

     

    If you concentrate on giving your team what they NEED, you give them the possibility of developing into something more. Without the basics in place, you are likely to run into problems sooner or later.

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  5. I'm writing this on my iPad NOT because I'm showcasing how mobile I am, but because I've infected my office PC, and it's currently in its 5th hour of surgery :-/
     
    I'd been having problems with my internet explorer, so I decided to download it again. By mistake I downloaded a chameleon programme which caused chaos. Luckily, I realised I had made a mistake quite quickly. Even more luckily, I have insurance and support, which meant that one call to the PC Support Group, complete with a full confession of what I'd done, has allowed them to set to work putting things right before the virus spreads.
     
    We all make bad decisions and do the wrong thing from time to time. If you are new in a role, you will almost certainly make mistakes. It's normal. However, to stop a mistake turning into a disaster, we need to recognise it, stop making things worse, and ask for help.
     
    For some reason, many people (particularly people promoted internally to a management position) feel that asking for help is a sign of failure or weakness. It isn't. It's a sign of maturity. To recognise that you have made a mistake in the first place takes a level of self-awareness. To decide to NOT to try and solve it yourself (unless of course you know the solution) shows rational thinking. To ask for help shows a willingness to learn and collaborate.
     
    I work with many first line managers and their line managers. I can't bring to mind a single Area Manager or Department Head who would rather deal with a problem that's got out of hand and escalated, than a mistake that's just occurred. Of course, they would all prefer not to deal with any mistakes at all, so taking time to ask advice and develop our skills is the best option. But second best is owning up when we've made a mistake and asking for help as soon as possible: Damage limitation and a learning opportunity all rolled into one.
  6. This week, I've been to the Neurobusiness conference in Manchester, and it has given me lots of food for thought. Some things I need to reflect on and check out, whilst others are like finding a missing piece! One such session was about designing and implementing change, but change is what training is about so although the speaker (Gary Luffman) may have had large scale change in the forefront of his mind, I was focussing more on the small scale changes we try to bring about through training.

    It was comforting to hear to evidence-based research that backed up a lot of the practices we have learned to be 'good practice'. Things such as:

    • The need to repeat the 'new' behaviour many times if we want it to stick
    • The importance of really taking time to understand an individual's starting point
    • Focussing on the positives...what we should do, rather than the negatives, what we need to stop doing
    • Our brain can only process complex information and be productive for a certain amount of time before it needs a rest (and a change is as good as a rest), so we need to keep training sessions short and build in breaks. (Running sessions from 8-6 and have a working lunch really isn't going to work!)
    • Allowing people to identify their own training needs/objectives and define their own action plans means they are more likely to make a change.

     

    I was not aware that the brain is more active when we are standing up than sitting down...and I was pleased to finally have some justification for all the post-it note and flip chart exercises I write into courses.

    Neither did I know that properly thinking things through (in detail and step by step) is almost as useful as physical practice. Great news for those who hate role playing! Talking me through step by step what you would say and do in a particular situation is almost as good for your learning as showing me....It's all about creating patterns in the mind.

    I've said before that I'm a pragmatist. I don't care much for theories...I care for what works. That said, it was nice to understand a little more about WHY some of the things that work DO work. I realise that I'm cherry picking... I'm learning bit by bit, and as the old analogy states, the only way to eat and elephant is in small pieces... though why anyone would want to eat an elephant is beyond me!

     

  7. Being a new manager is scary. No two ways about it. Especialy if you have found yourself in a management position almost by accident. Even if it's something you've actively worked towards, actually being responsible for people, budgets and resources is scary. We can all comment, criticise and advise when we have no direct responsibility but when it's time to 'put our money where our mouth is' - it's quite different.

    I've been a manager twice in my career, and as my business grows, I find myself increasingly in a 'management' role. In all honesty, it's not something that comes easily to me. I'm not naturally good at it, but I like to think I'm competent. And that's because I apply the training I deliver.

    • Got a difficult decision to make? - Use the decision-making tools I tell others to use.
    • Struggling to get everything done? - Eisenhower my to-do list and find people who can help me out.
    • Managing a team? - Remember all the things I teach about the importance of regular communication (even though I worry about it being 'overkill' and taking up too much of everyone's time - including my own).
    • Got to have a 'difficult' conversation? - Plan what I'm going to say, and use the structures for effective feedback (don't hope the problem will go away!)
    • Got too much work? - Say no, politely but assertively.
    • Identify a problem? - Identify possible solutions and then take it to the stakeholders if it's their decision to make rather than mine.
    • And of course, the 'golden rule' - Do as you would be done by!

     

    Just because these things don't always come naturally to me, they sometimes feel awkward and forced. But that's the thing.... they FEEL awkward and forced to me. The people I'm working with or managing don't know how I feel. They only hear what I say and see what I do... and it isn't as bad as it feels.

    We all have to start somewhere, and we only get good at something by practising. At some point, there has to be a 'first time', and that's why I say to new managers go back to your training (and if you haven't had any) get some advice, take a moment to think about what you will do, then do it.

    It almost ceratinly won't be as bad as you expect, and you will probably do more good by being brave and dealing with the situation than if you just bury your head and wait for things to get sorted.

    As Yoda said "Do or Do Not - there is no Try".

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  8. My son goes to swimming lessons with his friend. So we and the friend's parents alternate taking them. This week it was their turn.

    Being a mum who believes in raising my kids to be independent, I delegated the task of getting swimming things ready to my son. I quickly checked his bag when he said he had everything. He did. The bag was placed in the hall and he picked it up when his lift arrived.

    Fast forward an hour, and his friend's Dad is explaining how he coped with my son having no towel, no goggles and no clean pants. (He did very well I think!).

    doh

    How could this be? I saw the bag packed full of the right things before he went? Simple. He had placed his swimming bag next to the almost identical bag of his sister which she had dumped in the hall after netball, and picked up the wrong one! Thankfully he was wearing his trunks under his trousers, or there'd have been no swimming at all.

    So, my attempts at delegation failed. I got it almost right, I delegated authority (to decide what to pack) and responsibility (for doing the tasks in a timely manner)  but I should never have delegated accountability - yet. That should still have been mine for a little while longer. If I had held on to that, someone else (i.e. the friend's father) wouldn't have had to sort out the problem.

    It's a timely lesson about how tricky delegation can be, even in seemingly simple situations. Of course, that doesn't mean I go back to packing everything for him. It simply means I take more care (and build in more checks) next time, until I'm happy that I can fully step away. Managers can also find it hard to delegate, and when things go wrong (as they often do at the start), they decide that they can't, and go back to doing everything themselves. That's when they get overwhelmed. Delegating takes time, and perseverance, and we have a bite-size training session that can help them to learn how to delegate effectively.

  9. My son is gluten intolerant. NOT coeliac (thankfully), but him and wheat definitely don't get on. We discovered this about 2 years ago, when he was 7... after we had put up 2 years of bad behaviour from him!

    He would throw tantrums out of the blue, be nasty, get upset for no reason, complain of tummy ache, refuse to go to bed and be generally horrible. We even labelled his behaviour as 'grumping'. We tried many ways to deal with it: reward charts and incentives; clear rules and punishments, ignoring it, shouting, cuddling. Nothing worked. We just assumed that we had a 'difficult' child.

    tantrum

    Because we weren't prepared to give up on him (becuase despite everything we still loved him to pieces!), we started to become aware of patterns. It wasn't just before bedtime, or when he supposed to read. It was when he had had a wheat-heavy day. Beaver camp sealed it for us: weetabix for breakfast, sandwiches for lunch, and pasta for tea, with biscuits in between. He came home saying he'd had stomach ache all day and was in a foul mood.

    We cut wheat from his diet and within 2 days, he was a different boy. Obviously he still has the odd 'strop', (he's a nine-year old boy), but his behaviour is much improved and well within what's normal.

    So what's the moral of this story? 

    Poor performance has an underlying cause. It may not be obvious (even to the person who is the problem), but there is something that's getting in the way.

    For managers, dealing with poor performance is time consuming, difficult and energy-sapping. You can feel that you are banging your head against a brick wall. The 'threats', training and counselling don't change anything. Maybe that's because the root cause is still a mystery.

    Generally at work, most poor performance can be attributed to:

    • Lack of clarity about what's expected
    • Lack of knowledge/skill
    • Lack of motivation
    • Lack of resources

     

    But these aren't the only causes. You can't solve a problem until you know what problem to solve. Once you've got the right starting point, you can turn performance around. Find out how with our Manage Underperformance Module or Performance Management Bundle.

    Alternatively, why not check out our Prezi on this topic?

  10. Running a launch session for a new management development programme last week, the question "How am I supposed to find time to fit this in on top of everything else?" was raised. It's not unusual. We are all busy, so being expected to complete pre and post-course work AS WELL AS attend workshops can feel overwhelming.

    It isn't easy. I'm not going to pretend otherwise. But it is possible.

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    Making time to do those 'important but not necessarily urgent' things such as personal development, business planning, team building etc. requires you to do three things:

    1. Plan. You need to set aside time in your day/week/month. Choose a time when you are least likely to get dragged into other things (so Monday morning isn't likely to be good for most people), and when there are plenty of other people around to deal with unexpected emergencies. Give people notice that you aren't going to be available. Be realistic about how much time you can set aside in one go, as that makes number 2 easier.
    2. Protect. Protect that time in your diary as if it were a hospital appointment, or a date with Brad Pitt/Angelina Jolie. You wouldn't give THAT up on a whim would you? If possible, work somewhere else... at home, in a meeting room - anywhere where you won't be constantly interupted by people, your phone or your email. Switch your devices OFF.
    3. Prioritise (and Persevere!) If you get put under pressure to discard your plans and deal with (yet another) emergency, resist the urge to save the day, and take a step back. Pause. Think. Is this the very best use of your time? Is there another way that this emergency can be dealt with? Does it have to be you? Does it have to be now? If you give up your precious (supposedly protected) time, when will you get it back?

     

    For most us, no-one is going to die or come to serious harm if we don't immediately stop what we're doing and respond to someone elses emergency. Of course, if this IS the case, then drop what you're doing and go! 

    Unexpected events happen all the time. How many truly need immediate attention? Can you acknowledge the issue or put in a temporaly solution quickly? Are you solving someone elses problem? Should it even be you who is dealing with it?

    What's the worst that will happen if you DON'T attend to it immediately? 

    When we constantly fire-fight we can feel important, but it's exhausting and things never improve. Only by making time to deal with the important stuff can we ever make things better for ourselves, our colleagues, our organisations and our customers.

    If you want to take back control of your time, why not download our self-study workbook